A forgotten art.
Left in the dusty cupboards of old shit people USED to do in the old days before SEX came along.
Not true young buckaroo…
Dry humping is, and can be, as useful as a blowjob and in the right circumstances, as good as sex itself.
Don’t worry, I’m gonna explain myself on this one…
Let’s go back to the year 1997…
For me, teenage years…
Between school and college, girls were around and, if you lucky enough to get one round to your house before mum came home, you scored.
In such delicate situations, you had to make sure you had enough drink to offer her, the right Jodeci mixtape and the right reason to invite her to your bedroom.
Once she was there, you were ALMOST home.
Sex was NEVER EVER expected. Hoped for, but never expected. Shit, just the chance to get a kiss and maybe a grope of a breast was considered a successful afternoon. If she let you touch her lady garden over her panties, that was a bonus 100 points. If you got IN the panties… WELL, that’s masturbation material for later on.
If she wasn’t interested in having sex, that was cool… unfortunately Freek n You didn’t work this time.
But what it did get you was 10-15 minutes of some good old, top of the clothes, breathing and heaving, adjust the dick moving, pre-cum staining, once or twice cum hiding moments that were JUST what you needed.
You were sorted! You could go to your boys the next day and tell the story that she was moaning and groaning and she did this and she did that, without having to explain that all you got was some simple dry humping.
The pratice of dry humping is usually to INTRODUCE the sex. Packaged with some good foreplay, lying on top of your partner and rocking and rolling them, lining things up, making sure they can FEEL the movement where it needs to be felt.
Now THAT’S some good dry humping.
Add a real good, sensual kiss from my previous blog (A simple kiss) and that session of tribbing against each other will feel as good as the actual penetration itself. Some of you may think that that is not possible but the REAL dry humpers out there are smelling what I’m cooking (the men who know to have the dick pointing up so when the erection kicks in, it’s straight in line with her clitoris and the women who know how to move their hips the RIGHT way.)
There is another side to dry humping.
Practiced by women REGULARLY, dry humping can be used as something to just palm a man off with. Invite him over, things start to get a bit heated, maybe you don’t feel the moment anymore, give him some simple dry humping then change ya mind.
Not fair, lol.
But, to the ladies, there is the OTHER side to dry humping isn’t there?
Huh, when the RED team comes to visit, dry humping is a way to keep yaself hot without comprising ya morals or making any messy decisions.
I don’t know how well known this is amongst the male population but SOME women are particularly horny during their monthlys. That is if their not torn the fuck up from stomach cramps, retained water, general pissed off with the world syndrome or not wanting to be touched or seen by ANYONE.
Come on, we’ve all been there…
In a situation when you have a particularly randy lady on her regular, and she may not be feeling like putting a dick in her mouth, dry humping answers all questions.
Able to keep the feeling of genital-to-genital relations going, without the actual touching, allows you both to feel something. No point missing out… there’s ALWAYS a way.
With such beautiful acts that take place in bed like the amazing 69 when the pussy is right in your face or the lovely view you get from a reverse cowgirl or the moment when someone is giving you head and you talk with your eyes or when you put your hands on the small of a woman’s back, doggystyle, and watch her ass shake OVER your hands or the feeling or a woman coming on you or the feeling of warm lips on your neck… (you get the point…)
With such beauiful acts and things to see, people forgo the dry humping in order to get on to other things.
But don’t forget, before you were of a sexual age, how GOOD dry humping used to feel. Sometimes a good humping would make your whole week.
It’s still useful.
Ladies and gentlemen reading this blog, I challenge you…
Next time you have your lady of gentleman caller in a Isley Brothers situation (Between The Sheets), see if you can make them come from dry humping.
It may seem like a simple challenge but it requires smooth, fluid, constant hip movement, no drooping, straight grinding.
You may have been able to do it before, but when was the last time you made her come like that before even taking any of her clothes off?
When was the last time you put your man down on the sofa and tribbed on him until he came on himself?
If you’re thinking, ‘why would I do that when I could just fuck them and done?’ then bye bye, see ya later, door is THAT way…
Where’s your sense of fun, of trying something?
You don’t have to tell your partner your doing it, just try it. See what happens.
By Mr Oh