It’s hot, sweaty and sticky in between the sheets when you are holding yourself over your partner and you are looking at them and they are looking at you and it’s all real nice and sexy. Everything is great and lovely, he may be getting harder and she could be getting wetter and then suddenly, your partner decides to pick up a candle and drip drop a few strands of candle wax on ya.
Don’t be confused if your partner DOESN’T scream out ‘oh yes baby, gimme more’. In fact what you should expect them to do is to first suck air through their teeth as the wax hits ’em. Then, after that happens, you should expect a look from your partner that says, ‘what the fuck was that?’
And why not? You chose to spill hot boiling, turned into liquid, wax on another person’s skin. Of course they’re gonna be a little pissed at ya.
Unless they are into that kind of thing, which means they are expecting the pain and the sting and red-raw skin mark afterwards.
If you’ve seen Basic Instinct, or Body of Evidence, then you’ll remember the scene I’m talking about. It was a tie-up scene where the man had been tied to the bed, and she dripped the wax on him.
Not just some small, ikkle piece of wax, oh no…
My girl went and held that candle from far above his body and dripped it down his chest. That shit was landing, burning, stinging, then drying…
And to anyone who has ever accidentally burnt themelves on some candle wax, you know how long that sting lasts.
Not too long but long enough to let you know, ‘wax on finger’.
It burns like straight Courvoisier.
Candle wax is not a play toy in the bedroom. Well, it is, but it isn’t. I’ve witnessed some real accidents as a result of the candle being left on a side table that got knocked over and set the whole room on fire.
But, on the other side, I’ve seen some real sexy secretions as a result candle wax being spilled.
It can induce you into taking the sting, getting angry, then flipping your partner over and giving them a good seeing to in your angry state.
Wax still stuck to ya thigh.
It can go eitherway.
But that’s the thing about candle wax. It’s meant to be something that you introduce but not do for like a whole session.
I mean, a whole sex session of just spilling candle wax on each other?
That’s just crazy talk.
It’s more about the idea of candle wax than the candle wax itself that puts people off. When you spill the substance, upon first contact, you know what has fallen on you.
You feel temporary pain
Your body comes alive with a feeling that somewhere specific is enduring pain.
But take that same feeling, be lying on your partner and that same sensation is changed into something different.
Whether your expecting it or not expecting it, that heat will do one of two things. It will wake you up like you’ve been sleeping, kick your ass with the sting, form a red patch on ya skin (depending on ya shade) and make you say something like, “Fuck me, I don’t wanna play this game anymore!”
You could grimace, you could screw up your face, you could suck in air through your teeth and call out loud for the LAWD… then ask for another.
Maybe you like to watch the wax splatter onto your skin.
Personally, I like to watch the wax dry, cool and harden.
That’s real ‘lions, tigers, bears, oh my……’
Anyone who has ever played with candle wax knows how it feels when it touches you. You feel alive, you feel real, you feel… like all those other cliches of good feelings that make you feel like, at that exact moment, you are living.
That might be a bit too deep all for some candle wax but, someone out there knows what I mean. Ah ha… it’s the Jigsasw feeling…
Coming out the other side of something.
(Just with less pig heads, drugging, kidnapping, etc.
When a woman drops wax on a man’s chest or any part of his body for that matter, he feels it. He feels every part of it. There is not one part of his body that does not feel the pain that is currently ripping through his chestal cavity.
But, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t like it. As we’ve already covered in blogs before, pain can be pleasure. It can hurt and feel OH SO good at the same time.
It’s not everyone’s splash of sauce on the top lip but hey, not everyone likes everything.
Some people like to get fucked with feet (yeah they do it with the toes), some people like to have people spit on em, some people like to break into people’s houses and have sex in their beds (eeeeewww, imagine coming home from a long day and you just wanna lie down and, oooh, what’s that wet patch on your bed?)
But we just have to be open to the idea that there are many other ways to be turned on and maybe be open to exploring them.
Candlewax is more a tool for foreplay.
It is preferred by the more avant garde of sexers who may possibly own a whip, some porn industry-standard lube and an entire DVD case of films dedicated to Kitten and Vanessa Blue.
Might be into a bit of S&M and are never afraid to take it there when it needs to be taken there.
It’s is one of the more dangerous things to play with in the bedroom, you know with all the fire and shit, but that is part of the appeal.
It’s HOT to know that, any minute, one of you could drop the candle and start a fire.
To think about it, the idea of skin burning and human suffering isn’t a real libido lifter but, if you’ve ever played with a candle, you know what I mean.
If you’ve played with a candle and been tied to a bed at the same time, you definitely know what I’m talking about…
To stare at the flame
Watch it dance as you breathe
Wonder as it gets closer to you
You feel the heat
Stare at the flicker as it’s leaned
You watch the wax get close to the edge of the candle
It’s about to…
One drip licks…
Stings like a bitch
But you like that shit
It hurt but maybe, just a little, you enjoyed it
Look into your partner’s eyes as you ask for another hit
You freak you…
By Mr Oh